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Stay Strong and Keep Going On

We are here to help anyone who is struggling with depression, anxiety, self harm, or for anyone that just needs someone to lean on.

Here is a link to a suicide website that has live chat https://www.imalive.org/

Anonymous asked: I cant do this anymore. The voices in my head wont stop. I dont want to die but it seems like the only way to make this stop. I cant eat. I cant sleep. I cant stop cutting. I cut to make the voices go away but it doesnt help. I just want it to stop


Answer:

don’t listen to those voices. You are much stronger than it. Fight them. When they become unbearable, find another way to cope. One that doesn’t involve hurting yourself. You can come talk to me, if you want. You can beat the voices. I believe in you. It’ll be hard at first, but slowly it’ll become easier. Dying isn’t the only way to quiet them. You fight, and when you win, they will quiet down. They may come back, but you are strong enough to fight it, ok?

-cam

Anonymous asked: I'm in love. I know i am. But i have to hide it because my dad hates gay people. He'll kick me out . I hate having to hide her. I feel like cutting.. Idk what to do. I'm really down right now :'(


Answer:

Please don’t cut, hun. I’ve never been in love, but never be afraid to hide it, no matter who it is. I understand your father is an issue, but if you do tell him, you always have your friends or the one you love.. your father is just one of many obstacles, please don’t let it stop you from being with who you love. Promise me you won’t cut. Promise? You can get through this.

-Cam

Anonymous asked: Really, really struggling tonight. I just don't know what to do. I just can't take this anymore..


Answer:

You can do this, dear. I know you can. You’re strong enough. Talk to me, What’s making you struggle?

- cam

Anonymous asked: do you know of any advice blogs that need admins/can someone comment any?


Answer:

I would say we are, but we are not getting that many asks, so we could handle it. But if you want you could ask the owner of the blog, which is kayla. Also, i think you could apply to be an admin at youre-not-alone-love shes alone and maybe needs another person.. If you scroll through popular advice blogs, you could see many self promos for advice blogs that are new or not. Some asking if anyone would like to admin. You could press on any of those and ask them if they need admins… sorry im not much help. If anyone knows of any advice blogs in need of an admin, please let me know.. thank you :)

-Cam

Anonymous asked: Anon about the ex- we've talked about it & we can't date again because now he's in college and im still a senior & long distance didn't work for us; basically he isn't ever sure that he wants to be/stay with me


Answer:

If he doubts the relationship will work, whether or not its long distance then maybe it wont work. Because if one of you want it to work, but the other is doubtful. Then you both arent really working together. Does that make sense? If its meant to be, itll happen, but if its not, youll find someone else

-Cam

Anonymous asked: ->about him, I've never met anyone i could talk to like him & I've tried so much to move on but i never really can, always end up heartbroken again, 1/2 a year later we still admit neither has moved on & it's hurting us equally


Answer:

You guys still like each other as you mentioned, have you actually spoken to each other about it? If you haven’t, you should. It’s not always easy to get over someone. Sometimes it takes a few months or maybe a few years. Also, some people are meant to fall in love, but not be together.. but if it’s hurting you both, why not give it another try?

-cam

Anonymous asked: I dont know why i have only cut myself a few times and im trying to stop but i just cant help but Crave for more scars


Answer:

That’s how self harm is. No matter is you’ve made a lot or just a few. It’s an addiction, but like all addictions, you can overcome it. You can stop. You don’t need more scars on that beautiful body of yours.. you and i can work together, if you’d like. I’m trying to stop, too, so why not, right? You can overcome this. You’re strong, i believe you can stop :)

-Cam

Anonymous asked: I can't think of other things no matter how hard I've tried to. I feel the hands on me and it won't go away if I could find something that would replace that I would feel better. If I could just cut my entire body from feeling all the other things that's all I want


Answer:

I’ve felt exactly that on several days before. Put on music, any of your choice. Lie down. Close your eyes. Take a deep breathe. Listen. Listen to the words or instruments of the music. Listen to the animals outside if you can hear them. Listen to your heart that’s beating for a reason. Will yourself to breakaway from the hands you feel holding you back.

Anonymous asked: I just overdosed night enough to kill me but enough knock me out. And I can't stop cutting...I'm just spiraling out o of control and I don't know what to do...I just want to die.


Answer:

Please put that blade/razor down. Those pills you took, please throw them up. You can do this. You can stop cutting. You can live through tonight. You’re strong, ok? You have to live, for me, for your friends and family, but most importantly for you. It may feel like dying is the only way out, but it’s not. You have so many other options. Please get help.

-cam

Anonymous asked: Bad things I'm not in mood to express them I just know it's making me want to die


Answer:

Well whatever those thoughts are, don’t listen to them. It’s hard, I know, but try. That’s all I need. Try to lie down and relax. Attempt to fill your mind with whatever makes you happy. Like, ice cream, music, books, HIS/HER smile, etc. do anything to stray your mind from those thoughts. Walk around your room, close your eyes and create cute and happy scenarios, or something. You can talk to your best friend. Those thoughts are just that, thoughts. They are consuming, I know, but you can overcome them.

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